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𤨠Want Instagram DMs To Convert? Read This..
Most get this wrong. But one change makes all the difference.


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Instagram DM Funnels That Actually Work (and Donāt Feel Gross)
Build trust. Sell quietly.
Hereās the truth about Instagram DMs:
Most people use them wrong.
They spam links.
They cold-pitch strangers.
They blast the same āHey šā script to everyone and wonder why nothing converts.
But when you do it right?
DMs become your quietest sales channel ā running almost invisibly in the background.
No landing page.
No funnel.
Just real conversations that lead to revenue.
Letās break it down. Iāll show you exactly how to get people to DM you, what to say back, and when it makes sense to drop your offer.
First: What a DM Funnel Isnāt
Itās not:
You sitting in your inbox 12 hours a day
Sending 100 cold messages to people who never asked
Pretending to be someoneās friend, then baiting them into a pitch
Thatās not a funnel.
Thatās desperate.
And it burns trust instantly.
Instead, a proper DM funnel feels like a warm invite.
The kind that says:
āHey, I saw what youāre working on. I think I can help.ā
How to Get People to DM You First
Letās get this straight:
You donāt wait around and hope.
You create the trigger.
Hereās how to get people to start the convo ā without begging, pitching, or sounding desperate.
1. Use āTrigger Wordsā in Stories or Reels
Example:
āWant my free funnel checklist? DM me āquietā and Iāll send it over.ā
Why it works:
Specific word = easy action
Clear promise = no confusion
Feels like value, not a trap
You can also use:
āDM me āblueprintā for the PDFā
āDM āstartā to get the setup docā
āReply āYESā and Iāll send you the guideā
This works even better when paired with a short Reel or a visual Story slide with a poll.
2. Tease Behind-the-Scenes Content
People love getting access. Use Stories to show whatās coming.
Example:
āJust finished this mini-course on quiet funnels. Want early access? DM me ābetaā.ā
Or:
āPrepping the DM script I used to make 20 sales from one Story. DM me if you want it.ā
Make it feel like theyāre raising their hand ā not joining a mailing list.
3. Run Polls or Question Stickers That Lead to DMs
Polls build micro-commitments.
Question boxes let you segment your audience before they enter the funnel.
Example:
Story poll: āDo you sell a digital product yet? Yes / Not yetā
Follow-up: Manually or automatically message those who said "Not yet" with:
āIāve got a guide that might help ā want me to send it?ā
People expect a reply. Thatās your open door.
The Funnel Structure (In Plain English)
Now that theyāve messaged you, what next?
A good DM funnel has only three parts:
1. The Trigger
We just covered it ā a story, post, or video that invites someone to DM you with a specific word or response.
Make it low-friction.
Make the value clear.
Donāt ask for too much upfront.
2. The Conversation (Semi-Automated)
Start simple:
āGot your DM about the checklist ā happy to send it. Quick question: whatās your offer about?ā
This keeps it personal.
And if you're using a tool like Manychat or ChatGPT-generated reply templates, you can still guide the flow without sounding robotic.
The real goal here?
Earn context before you pitch.
3. The Offer (Only If Itās Right)
Not everyone needs your link.
But when it feels right, and the convoās warm, say:
āThat lines up with [your product]. Want me to send the link?ā
That line alone has done more selling than most sales pages.
Automate the Boring. Personalize the Sale.
Hereās what I automate:
First reply after a trigger word
Sending checklists, PDFs, bonuses
Following up 24 hours later with: āWas that helpful?ā
Hereās what I keep human:
Discovery questions
Custom recommendations
Voice notes
Itās not about being everywhere.
Itās about being intentional where it counts.
Real-World Example
Story post:
āWant the 5-part funnel I use to sell $27 products quietly?ā
š āDM me āquietā and Iāll send it.ā
They reply.
Automation sends the asset.
Next day, you follow up manually with:
āAny thoughts? Just curious ā whatās your current offer?ā
Thatās the funnel.
No pushy CTA.
No weird bro-marketing energy.
Just clarity ā value ā conversation ā sale (if it fits).
Final Lesson
The best DM funnels donāt feel like funnels.
They feel like help, at the right time.
You donāt need to āsell harder.ā
You need to design a path that invites conversation ā and lets the offer show up when it makes sense.
Thatās how you sell in the DMs.
Quietly. Confidently. Consistently.
Proverb to Remember:
āDonāt chase customers ā create conversations.ā
Talk soon,
ā Gaurab
š§ Creator, AI Breakout Tips
š Freedom-First Strategist

